Sex your man mentally

As women, we seem to only  use our bodies to peak our man's sexual interest. I am not sure where we forgot our intellectually sex appeal, but it is to revive it.  Sex is 90% mental. Think about it; we can look at a man going for a jog with his shirt off.  He has a back of a gladiator, arms like a boxer and washboard abs, that make laundry the last thing on your mind. Case and point: we look at him and imagine all the crazy pleasurable things that he could possible do. Even with your own lover, having flashbacks of your last sexual encounter makes you want to do it again.  Men have these same urges and wants, and what better way for him to get that than from you!  Ladies, I am referring to things like,  leaving little sexy notes in your man's coat pocket or in his briefcase.  As old fashioned as it sounds, think about how much more it means to him in knowing you took the time to write it, instead of text it. It creates a vibe of spontaneity. Leaving your man a short little note, telling him the kinds of sexy things you want to do to him when he gets home, will have him antsy all day long.  It can be as subtle as, "I can't wait for you to make love to me when you get home ;-)," or as more direct as "the lips between my thighs are aching for your kiss."  Whatever you are most comfortable with.  It doesn't matter if he left you that morning with an old frumpy robe on or not. You just ignited an urge in him to get home to his sexy lover that is craving his love-making. Another way to peak his interest is leaving some erotic poetry on his voicemail, in your most sensual voice. This can be poetry your wrote yourself or from a book. Being a Spoken Word Artist, I know first hand the power of erotic poetry.  Stimulating your man's mind will take your relationship to a whole new level and it shows that you can not only satisfy his sexually cravings physically, but also mentally.