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Friday, July 8, 2011

Do you consider yourself a freak?

What makes someone a freak in the bedroom?  We have either classified ourselves as one or have been called that by someone else at some point and time, but what is really the definition?  I believe that everyone has a different level of freakiness or kinkiness.  Some think that if they have sex in the middle of the day or a nooner that they are freaky.  Others believe they or their partner are based on how often they want sex or the type of sex (i.e. oral, anal, etc). Is a woman considered a freak because she likes to get her hair pulled while her mate is giving her the business from behind, or is he a freak for smacking her on the ass? Who’s to say, which is the freakier of the two, but then again to some that may be boring or common.  I do not believe there is a direct definition to the term freak, only because it is applied different to each individual. Don't let whether you're a freak or not deter you from being who you are.  There's no such thing as too freaky; we all have our own way of sexual expression.  The key is finding the partner that matches it, or if not in the beginning is open-minded enough to at least try some of the things you like.
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  1. 1ManViewJuly 9, 2011 at 12:59 AM

    Myself, the word freak, falls under sexual experience... The more you experience, the more you are to be labeled a freak. Most people label the freak on you, when you stray from the word Vanilla. A word being used more and more sexually which means plain. No anal penetration, no toss salad, no spanking, no fisting, no sexual pain, no bondage, no master, no slave... Plain old sex is Vanilla. So basically, the more you do outside of the box, the more the freak you are. Which means everybody is a freak, according to someone else experience... (I like that question.)..

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  2. Lyric IshaniJuly 10, 2011 at 4:06 PM

    I believe that most people have their own definition and I agree that if it's outside of what most consider 'vanilla' then you are labeled a freak. Either way it's fun and engaging when you have an open minded partner.

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